It’s essential that all classrooms – both in-person and digital ones – be safe and inclusive places for LGBTQ+ students. This is especially important for students who might lack identity-affirming support at home or in their broader community. Watch what some of our Youth Voices had to say on the topic:
We’re here to help you build the kind of classroom your LGBTQ+ students need. Below you’ll find a list of actions you can take and resources you can use to help you get there.
Use inclusive and supportive language.
It goes without saying that your classroom should be a place free from derogatory and discriminatory language, a place where only encouraging words are used. Take some time to review with your students what that means for your classroom, and consider having them visit our online glossary to learn more about LGBTQ-inclusive terminology.
Also have a conversation with your students about pronouns. Share with them what pronouns you use to refer to yourself and why. Take it one step further and display your pronouns in places like your email signature and on your Zoom profile. Encourage your students to do the same, and remind them to always respect how others identify.
Include LGBTQ+ stories in your curriculum.
According to The 2017 National School Climate Survey by the GLSEN Research Institute, LGBTQ+ students in schools with inclusive curriculum are less likely to feel unsafe. What does inclusive curriculum look like?
Inclusive curriculum is one that regularly highlights LGBTQ+ people, history, and culture in a positive way. It’s one that respectfully acknowledges what LGBTQ+ communities contribute to this world. It’s one that values diversity and recognizes intersectional identities and experiences.
To build this type of curriculum, start by incorporating inspiring LGBTQ+ stories like those collected and crafted by the It Gets Better Project. We offer a growing collection of free-to-download educational materials – what we call EduGuides – that make it easy to do just that. To learn more, go to itgetsbetter.org/edu.
FUN FACT: Did you know that 5 U.S. states – California, Colorado, Illinois, New Jersey, and Maryland – mandate that all K-12 schools include LGBTQ+ history in their social studies curriculum?
Display your pride.
Who says allyship has to be subtle? According to this GLSEN report, LGBTQ+ students thrive when they can identify supportive staff at their school. So don’t hesitate to show your pride loud and, well, proud!
This can be as easy as wearing a t-shirt or sweater that showcases your support, like those found in our online store. Or maybe you could use an LGBTQ-friendly virtual background for Zoom, like the ones we offer here. You could even consider decorating a shelf with LGBTQ+ YA books. These are small gestures, but they can mean a lot to LGBTQ+ students looking for a supportive adult.
You can also consider ordering a Safe Space Kit from our friends at GLSEN.
Make space for unique activities.
When LGBTQ+ students feel good at school, their educational outcomes are significantly stronger (GLSEN, 2017). That’s why it’s important to find time for activities that do both, ones that prioritize your students’ mental health and encourage their academic success. When these activities help affirm and validate your students’ identities and experiences, even better.
A movie watch party could fit the bill. There are hundreds of uplifting LGBTQ+ films out there that you could screen together with your students using an app like Netflix Party. If time is limited, you can ask your students to watch the film on their own or in a small group and come prepared to discuss the film during class time. This is also a great activity for a GSA.
Need a suggestion? Consider screening Out & Around, available for free on our YouTube channel, and don’t forget to download our EduGuide to accompany it, available at the link above.
Keep your students informed.
Many of your LGBTQ+ students may be in need of support that is beyond your capacity to provide, like medical care, housing security, and legal aid. You can help by connecting your students to the community-based resources that are there to serve them.
At itgetsbetter.org/GetHelp, we offer an online database of over 1,100 organizations in 40+ countries around the world providing support to the LGBTQ+ community. The database is searchable by name, location, and service type. We also offer a number of identity-based resource lists for youth in the United States.
Share (and repeat) messages of support.
Words of support can go a long way in helping your LGBTQ+ students through a tough day. Something as simple as hearing that things can change for the better can help them dodge depressive symptoms (NPR, 2014). So why not be the one to share an encouraging word?
Since 2010, the It Gets Better Project has amassed an online collection of over 70,000 video stories, many of which can be found at itgetsbetter.org/stories. It’s the world’s largest storytelling effort for the empowerment of LGBTQ+ youth. These video stories and the inspirational messages they contain are available to share with your students at any time.
You can also add our messages of support to your emails and other communications with your students. Check out our collection of GIFs at giphy.com/itgetsbetter and our videos on TikTok.
Help your students stay connected to their community.
As was stated in a report recently published by The Trevor Project, it’s important that LGBTQ+ students continue to seek out social connections online during times of social distancing. This can go beyond family and friends, to include members of the broader LGBTQ+ community.
Making connections is a key part of the It Gets Better Project’s mission. We use our social media channels to help facilitate that effort. You can access an aggregate of all our accounts in one spot at itgetsbetter.org/connect, or click here for YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, Twitch, Twitter, Tumblr, and Facebook. While you’re there, make sure to follow us and share our accounts with your LGBTQ+ students.
FUN FACT: Did you know the It Gets Better Project has a Global Affiliate Network that currently spans nearly 20 countries across 4 continents? Click here to connect with LGBTQ+ communities around the globe.
Share the word.
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Have you discovered something that is helping to make your classroom a safer and more inclusive space for LGBTQ+ youth?
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Thank you for all you do to support LGBTQ+ youth. We’re extremely grateful to have educators like you on our side.
This resource list was written by Justin Tindall, MPH (he/they), the It Gets Better Project’s Director of Programs & Operations.